…there is the analogy/comparison to our lives and a tree in that apparently there are three type of people…leaf people, branch people and root people…so I will just copy and paste this next bit from the explanation online….
LEAF PEOPLE:
These are people who come into your life just for a season. You can't depend on them because they are weak. They only come to take what they want, but if the wind comes they will leave.
You need to be careful of these people because they love you when things are okay, but when the wind comes they will leave you
BRANCH PEOPLE:
They are strong, but you need to be careful with them too. They break away when life becomes tough and they can't handle too much weight. They may stay with you in some seasons, but they will go when it becomes harder
ROOT PEOPLE: These people are very important because they don't do things to be seen. They are supportive even if you go through a difficult time they will water you and they are not moved by your position they just love you like that ...
It's not all people you meet or are your friends, that will stay with you.
Only the root type of people will stay no matter the season
….I have a friend who this is his belief….I feel as though ‘temporary’ may feel a bit sad to lose someone as it were, but it’s also enabling that movement in our lives and creating situations for new people to enter…many things (people) don’t need to feel like a loss, either…if we know where they are and they’re happily moving forward with their lives as well etc, we may pop in and out and reconnect with them at other points in out own lives…but they’ll need space to grow, as we will…and it gives us all space to continue making connections…